Is this you? If the answer is yes, it is time to take stock of your activities. You cannot go on like this forever without getting sick or turning into a horrible person.
So what to do? Start by examining how you approach your work. Are you spending your valuable time on the most productive activities, or just the easiest to get out of the way? There is a difference. Learning to say “no” is the most difficult and important thing you will ever do. Some business is not worth it. Some activities will yield you nothing (or very little) – why agree to do them?
Now you’ve taken control of your time, you need to look at your attitude. This is a very rewarding business but it works on a strange model. You are only paid on results. Putting in a good effort … trying hard … these are virtues of course, but by themselves are no guarantors of success. Leave them to plumbers and accountants. You would do better to think of yourself as a hunter – if you don’t kill, you don’t eat.
As all good hunters know, success depends on planning and execution. So make your plan and focus on its execution. What steps are necessary? Make a list and follow it. Don’t get diverted! Now the calls to the solicitor and the building inspection and so forth are part of the plan. They are not cause for stress. And when you make the kill, you will feel great satisfaction at a job well done.